The Pathway To Your Results

Becoming Unlimited

Derick Grant Season 5 Episode 206

Your beliefs create your reality, not the other way around, and once you recognize that you're an infinite, limitless being, you'll see that nothing exists outside of you. 

• Beliefs are invisible until something triggers us
• Most of our beliefs are created by what somebody else wants
• The universe interprets wanting as importance, leading to an energetic gap
• You can only have what you already have energetically
• Your beliefs create a perception-projection loop
• Biblical references support the power of belief and faith
• Healing involves fixing a distorted self-concept
• We must let go of what we desire to receive it
• Surrender precedes breakthroughs
• We must give ourselves what we seek from the outside world

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Once you see what you actually are, that you're an infinite, limitless being, you'll see that nothing exists outside of you. I'm your host, derek Grant, and this is the Pathway to your Results Podcast. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Pathway to Results podcast. It's your boy, dg. We are here.

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I know we've been talking a lot about beliefs and how they shape our reality and perception and all that good stuff. I'm talking about this because I'm trying to get you ready. It's like a workout. I'm stretching you out right now because we got Unlimited coming out. Unlimited is the eight-week coaching program, live coaching program with me. Over the course of these eight weeks, over the course of these two months, I'm drastically going to help you change the trajectory of your life, because you're going to identify your invisible beliefs and then we're going to shift them into beliefs that are conducive to the desired reality. And then, once you have your beliefs in line with desired reality, we ain't got no choice but to experience in the physical, because I know that's what we all here do. Yeah, we want to experience on the mental plane, we want to experience it from the emotional state, but the reality of it is, we are physical beings and we do want to experience this in the physical. So that's really what today's about.

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I was having a conversation with my son this morning while he was eating breakfast. He's 12. He's going to be 13 here in a couple of months and I was teaching him how your perception is nothing more than a set of beliefs or opinions that you deem as true, and then that truth becomes your belief, and then your belief is then what's projected, and then that projection is what you see in your reality. And then, when you see that in your reality, the loop starts. And now it starts over again. So if I think that I'm terrible, I will believe that I'm terrible. And then, if I believe that I'm terrible, I will look for things in my physical reality that say that I'm terrible, that I'm terrible. I will look for things in my physical reality that say that I'm terrible. And now, because I see it in my reality that I'm terrible, I then believe again that I'm terrible. And you see, now it's a circle and it just keeps going and a lot of us are caught up in this toxic loop.

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A lot of us are playing from a place of limitation because we're not aware of the beliefs. And this is what I told you on episodes before. The reason why it's so challenging is because beliefs are invisible. Let me go ahead and say this again, just in case you didn't hear what I said. I said this before. Your beliefs are invisible. You don't know what your beliefs are until somebody triggers you. Good God, almighty, we might as well go ahead and get started, since we're here. You don't know what you are believing until someone I say believing, I say negative beliefs, because we ignore the positive beliefs, but you don't pay attention to what you believe until someone triggers you to bring that limiting belief up.

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So I got a client that I work with, super high profile. You know who it is. I'm not going to say who it is, but we're talking about limiting beliefs because the reality that they're experiencing right now isn't what they want to. High profile. You know who it is. I'm not going to say who it is, but we're talking about limiting beliefs because the reality that they're experiencing right now isn't what they want to experience. So I said well, what beliefs do we have that we need to let go of? This is the question for you to ask yourself what beliefs do I have that I need to let go of? This person said I need to let go of the belief that I need somebody else's validation, need to let go of the belief that I need somebody else's validation. Do you see how this goes? I need to let go of the belief that I need outside validation. Well, this was a belief that they were unaware of until they weren't getting the validation from the higher ups. They weren't getting validation from their job, they weren't getting validation from their boss. Do you see how this works? So the big thing and I was trying to get through to my son this universe doesn't care what you believe. It doesn't care, it doesn't. And this is the beauty of it. This is the beauty of it you can create your beliefs any way you want.

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The issue is is that we're not aware of our beliefs, and most of our beliefs were created by what somebody else wants. Let me say this again Most of your beliefs were created by what somebody else wants. So the first thing we got to do is become aware of what we were unaware of. And how do we become aware of that trigger? Something comes up and I don't like the way this feels. I don't like it.

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The next part of it and we talk about creating your reality is when you want something and it looks like it's not going to happen. It's trying to show you what your belief is. You don't really believe that it's going to happen. You don't really believe that this is going to come into your existence in the physical plane, because if you did, you would not be stressed out right now, you would not be feeling fear. But here's the issue. The belief that is coming up is probably from the old version. It's not coming from the desired reality that you are looking to experience in this physical plane. And this is where we get in a lot of trouble. We never take time to look at the desired reality. We never take time to look at it from the belief of the version of us who has already obtained it. Good God, almighty.

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So I asked my son. I said do you think it's hard to be a professional athlete? He goes no, I don't. I said if that's what you believe, then that's what you will see. If this is what you believe, then this is what your reality will experience. Sorry, you will experience in your reality.

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So I started to think about the good book. You start to go back to the Bible and listen. Yeshua ben Yosef was trying to tell us. I told you this many times Mark 11, 23 and 24. Truly, whatever I tell you, if anyone says that this mountain says this to this mountain go throw yourself into the sea. And does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them. I'm going to say this a little slower for you Mark 11, 23, 24. Truly, I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain meaning no matter how big it may seem, go throw yourself into the sea. Meaning I'm telling this mountain, I'm telling this big, this quote, unquote big dream, you're going to have to get up out of my way and does not doubt in their heart but believes what they say will happen, it will be done for them. Therefore, I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have already received it and it will be yours.

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Matthew 17, 20 said the same thing in a different way. He replied because you have so little faith. Truly, I tell you, if you have the faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain move from here to there and it will move. Nothing will be impossible for you. I'm going to go ahead and say this again so it can get down in your spirit. So for once, in this moment in space and time, you can hear what I'm saying, because most of the time you ain't trying to hear nothing that I'm saying. Nothing will be impossible for you. Nothing will be impossible for you. The only reason why you believed it was impossible was because you believed it was impossible. This is why every sacred text puts so much emphasis on faith, because you was going to have to believe on the positive outcome before it showed itself in the physical reality.

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But here's the caveat Ready. Here's where we get mixed up. You can only believe in something or sorry, you can only have whatever you believe, but you can also only have whatever you have. You can only have whatever you already have. Do you hear what I'm saying? You can only have whatever you have. I'm not talking about in your hand, I was talking about in your mind, in your heart. So when I have it in my mind, when I have it in my heart, I now am in alignment.

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So my son was sitting there. He was sitting at breakfast. I was trying to break this down to him. I said you don't want that shirt you have on. He looked at me and he's like what do you mean? You know kids, when you say something to them, they don't want to hear it and they give you that. Want this shirt. He goes yes, I do. No, you don't. How are you going to want something that you already have? You tell me, you may be grateful for having it, you may be appreciative, but you don't actually want it because you have it.

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See, this is where we get mixed up. You cannot have anything that you want. You cannot have anything that you want because here's why the universe is reading your state of being. So if your state of being is moving from the place of lack meaning you don't already have it, meaning you have this desire, then the universe is going to give you situations to trigger you, to show you the limiting belief that is keeping you from having it right now. So if I desire to be X, y and Z here in 12 months, I have to make sure that I am X, y and Z right now, because the universe interprets your wanting as importance. See, you only want things, things that are important to you or things that you usually don't have, and it interprets importance as energetic space, meaning the bigger the importance, the bigger the space in between you and your desired reality.

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Let me go ahead and say that again, just in case you didn't pick it up. When you want something really bad, all you're doing is saying that you don't have it. And the more that you want it, the further it is away from you, the bigger the importance. The further you are away from you, the bigger. Oh my gosh, I got to have that. That means you ain't even close to it. So the people that need money the most are the one who have it the least. The people that need love the most are the one who have it the least. The people that need love the most are the ones who love themselves the least. Good God, almighty, if I'm saying something that's triggering, I'm going to go ahead and I'm going to apologize in advance.

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Start to look at the way you are perceiving this physical reality, so it can show you the way your perception and your limiting beliefs are communicating on the inside. So I'm having my son sitting down and he's writing down all this stuff, right, and he was working out this morning. It got really hard and I purposely made it hard, I purposely made it challenging. I said is this hard? He goes yeah, I said it's only hard because you believe it's hard. It's only hard because you think it's hard, because I can pull somebody up off the streets who's been doing this for maybe 15 years and they're going to say that this isn't very hard. So you please tell me how can this one thing, this one workout, be two different things? It's because one of you believes that it's hard and the other one believes that it's not. Do you see?

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So when we start to look at life, when we start to look at this universe, it's operating under these two frequencies of wanting and having, wanting and having, wanting and having, wanting and having. You can't sit in both chairs. You got to ask yourself which one are you sitting in right now? Am I sitting in the chair of wanting or am I sitting in the chair of having? Right now, go ahead and look at your life, and here's the chair of having. All it's going to affirm is that you was already there and it ain't going to be no big deal.

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And this is what we call taking something for granted. And I know the world has made you think that taking things for granted is a bad thing. But when you start to look at your way you are physically manifesting your life. Anytime that you are taking something for granted, that means you already have it. So I told my son, you take that shirt for granted because you already have it. That's why you don't want it, do we see? So, before we start defining what's real, before we start to look at reality, we got to understand how the universe, how this electromagnetic field, how this sea of consciousness views reality. It views reality as having. It views reality as being. It's not viewing reality as wanting. That's not reality. Ladies and gentlemen, reality was you already having it? So the universe's definition of having is your frequency or your state of being is already it, and that is more real than anything that you could ever touch. Oh, my goodness Now. You remember when the disciples. Oh my goodness Now you remember when the disciples.

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The disciples came to Jesus and they asked him how did you heal that demon possessed boy? How did you do that? Because, remember, the father of the demon possessed boy came to the disciples and said will you rid this boy of these demons? Will you rid this boy of these unwanted? Will you rid this boy of these unwanted spirits? Good God, almighty Translation. Will you help my son get rid of these limiting beliefs that are keeping him from moving in his divine nature? Will you help him get rid of these old thoughts that no longer resonated with the healed version that he's looking to obtain in the desired reality? Will you please help him?

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The disciples didn't have enough faith because the disciples were still operating by seeing it and then believing it. So then the teacher came along, yeshua ben Yosef, aka Jesus. Jesus came and said I'll do it, and y'all chill out for a second. And he healed the demons possessed boy. Remember what healing was, good God almighty. Healing was nothing more than fixing a distorted self-concept. Healing was nothing more than fixing or rewriting a narrative that had been told that no longer matched the desired reality. Healing was you changing a belief that matched the old frequency of scarcity, of shame, of guilt, of fear, of anger, of resentment, of apathy, of discouragement. That's all healing was. And Jesus said I'll heal them.

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And when he casted out these demons and he got rid of these demons out of this demon-possessed boy, the disciples said teacher, how did you do that? All he told them was why ye of so little faith? Why ye of so little faith If you believe and have the faith of a mustard seed, meaning I didn't need much, I just needed a belief that would give me proof to know that this was even possible. I would start to move in the vibration of this already being done. So Jesus didn't come from the place of hoping that he could move these demons out of this boy. He didn't come from the place of wanting. He didn't come from the place of wishing. And he looked at the disciples.

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If you had the faith of a mustard seed and told that mountain to move, it would move and nothing would be impossible, including the things that nobody had ever done before in your lineage, including the things that had never been done before by a human being, including the things that this world had never seen. Nothing was impossible, and this is why I have to speak life into you. Let you know the human spirit, the spirit, all that is the breath of God, the part of you that was infinite, the drop of the ocean, that part of you was capable of anything. It's doing is looking at your frequency as the totality of your beliefs, your conviction, your perception, your emotionally charged thoughts, your focus, your reactions, your expectations, and it's trying to see how bad do you want it, because if you want it that's the paradox you ain't never going to have it. So the less that you desire that reality, the less that you desire, the easier that it will come, because the universe will not register any energetic space in between you and it. Shall I say this again the less that I want it meaning we call this in human terms attachment the less attachment that I have to the desired reality, the universe says, oh well, there's not much importance. That means they're moving in the frequency of already having it.

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And then here's the fun part about this game you get to see the infinite ways of how it's going to manifest itself. So I told you, people who want money the most usually have it the least. People who desire respect and lack the state of self-respect usually are respected the least by the outside. The people who seek things on the outside because they have not provided for themselves on the inside, it can't show itself on the outside. Do we see how this works? So for you in this journey, for you on this life, you got to ask yourself are my beliefs right now? Are they in alignment? Are they in alignment with the desired reality that I want?

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And then here's the paradox the only way for you to have the desired reality was for you to give it to yourself. The only way for you to actually have it was to give it to yourself. But you have to ask yourself what do I believe that this thing that I desire is going to give me? What do I believe that money is going to give me? What do I believe that entrepreneurship, that million dollar business, is going to give me? What do I believe that relationship that I'm so desperately seeking? What do I believe that relationship that I'm so desperately seeking? What do I believe that that's going to get me? See, desire is linked to the external world.

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But to seek outside of yourself and look into the illusion of this physical reality, how in the world can you expect this desire reality to exist? You have not provided it from the inside out. You got to give it to yourself on the inside. And then life. Here's what life's going to do you ready. Life is going to show you all the places that you have not been giving it to yourself. So if you do not love yourself and now you seek a relationship where it's whole and happy and you're being loved, life is going to show you through a relationship, most likely, where you are not being loved, where you're not loving yourself, and it's going to do it through that person cheating on you. It's going to do it through that person constantly betraying you. Why? Because you haven't been giving it to yourself. So here's the deal. When you recognize this, you will stop chasing the illusion, you will stop chasing this external reality and now you will start to embody the reality that you wish to experience. And when you embody the reality that you wish to experience, guess what? You won't want the reality on the outside anymore. Good God, almighty, this is the paradox, this is the mirror, this is the annoying truth of this universe the moment that you have it, you ain't going to want it, no more. So true story.

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I had a client that I was working with. He was a professional athlete. He's on a level that many of us dreamed of getting to, and he was at this reality. He was at this level, right, he was about to be out of his league, the league that he was in. He's about to be out Nine months ago. And he came to me and said what do we do? I said, look, we're going to do something that you've probably never done before consciously. But you're going to have to become somebody that you've never been meaning. You're going to have to develop new self-concept and new self-belief and you're going to have to be able to fix this on the fly, because we only got about nine months to figure this out.

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So every week, every single week, we spend our energy looking for the limiting beliefs that were coming up, seeking the validation of teammates. No-transcript inside, but there was a hella, hella, limiting beliefs. Now, with anything, you're going to have to be consistent. You're going to have to be consistent in rewriting the narrative. You're going to have to be consistent in developing a new belief, because these new beliefs were invisible. You're going to have to be consistent with trying to find them and they're going to come up. And here's the beauty of it Life is trying to look you out. Every time that you get triggered, every time that you think something's not going to happen and you feel discouraged and you feel like it's not going to happen, all that is life saying, hey, you got some limiting beliefs that ain't fitting the desired reality. We need to clean those things up, sister. We need to go ahead and get down to the business and fix those things that are not in alignment with the desired reality. So I sat here and had this conversation with him week after week after week, about him giving himself the reality that he desired internally. Can I say this again for the people in the back Giving yourself the reality that you desired internally. And it's a process. It is a process. It is a process. It does not happen overnight, just like those beliefs that you have did not happen overnight.

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We can take a look at your beliefs right now. Look at every belief that you have. I'm here to tell you this Everything that you have ain't nothing more than a belief. It's all a belief, all of it, all of it's a belief. Everything in your life is nothing more than the sum total of your beliefs. But you look at reality, because we're perceiving creatures, and we look at our external reality and we think that this is what it is. No, that ain't what it is. That's what you are, that's what you are, that's what you are. So you don't realize that the program was running, just a program.

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So, only, only and I'm underlying, only, I'm putting in bold, I'm putting it in capital. Go ahead and circle it if you need to. Only through first acquiring the desired reality's frequency, the desired reality state of being. Only through being that and developing beliefs and looking at life from that perspective will you enter the desired reality. Only Only so.

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Let me tell you this right now. I'm going to shoot you straight, like I always have. You're in the mind of DG right now. This is the way I talk to myself. If you're not already in your desired reality, then you ain't never going to be into your desired reality. You ain't never going to be into your desired reality. If you're not already in your desired reality, then you can never be in your desired reality. See what I'm doing. I'm speaking esoterically right now. You ain't trying to hear nothing that I'm saying right now, if you are not already in your desired reality energetically meaning, mentally and emotionally and I have beliefs that support it if I am not in that reality right now, I'm never going to see it in the physical.

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So this is why, in Matthew 21, 22, jesus said if you believe, you will receive whatever you had asked for in prayer. If you believe, you will receive whatever you have asked for in prayer. If you believe, you will receive whatever you have asked for in prayer. If you believe, you will receive whatever you have asked for in prayer. But here's the deal you ready, you ready? Are you ready? I don't think you're ready. Are you ready, you ready?

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Okay, the issue is, is what you're asking for is actually coming from a place of limitation? See, you were only asking for things that fit within your bubble of belief. See, you were only asking for things that fit within your bubble of belief. So you thought that it was hard for you to make money. You thought that you had to work hard to get to where you were going, and that was your belief. You were fed that belief and you adopted that as your own belief. So now, here's the deal you ready. This will be what you carry out and this will be what you see in life. And now life saying yo, you realize that you are capable of more.

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We got to show you that this belief ain't true, and that's when you're going to get triggered, that's when you're going to question yourself. So this is why we call them limiting beliefs, because they create a fence around us, they create a limitation. But I'm just here to tell you the only reason why you have these limiting beliefs and why they don't feel good is because they're not true to your divine nature. They're not true to what you're actually capable of, and that's why it hurts, that's why it stings. That's why, when someone questions how much you cost, or they question what your prices are, and it stings a little bit, that means you didn't believe that you was even worthy of it to begin with. I'm going to sit back right now and you just go ahead and let this marinate, because I know for sure that you ain't trying to hear nothing that I'm saying right now.

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So here's the question that you got to ask yourself Are you good with your desired reality right now? Do you like it? Do you like it? Do you like it? Or are there things, or are there beliefs that you need to let go of? I just asked a client this yesterday. She was struggling a little bit. Career ain't going the way she wants right now. I said okay, what do you need to let go of? What do you need to let go of? She said I got to let go of this, this and this. Okay, then, what you waiting for? You see, just by asking that simple question, just by asking that simple question, she was able to shine a flashlight on what had seemed invisible Before that she was operating in this destructive, toxic perception projection loop. But by asking that question she was able to see oh my goodness, I have a belief that's limited right now. I believe that I needed permission for people to tell me what I was capable of. I had a perception or a belief that I needed somebody else's perspective. I needed somebody else's belief to give me permission to step into who I was.

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Now, hear me when I say this. I'll use this as an example. You know, you can go out there and score 20 points, but the coach only thinks that you can score 10. Both of them are beliefs. The question is, which one's going to hold more weight? Will it be your belief of scoring 20, or is it going to be the coach's belief that you can only score 10? Whichever one you give energy to, that's going to be the one that's truth in your life. So you got to ask yourself which one am I giving more energy to? Ah dang, I'm not shooting the ball, and when I do shoot the ball, I'm scared. I'm not taking this chance because I'm scared. So that means that you have a limiting belief. You don't really believe that you can score 20, but you believe that you can score 10 because somebody else has projected their belief onto you and they had enough influence in your life, meaning it was your boss, it was your coach, it was your spouse, it was your kids, it was society. They had enough influence, enough energy behind it that you was able to take this in and make it your own belief. And that's your truth. And you know you can go out there and get 10 with your eyes closed, but in order to get 20, you're going to have to become somebody that you've never been. When I say you become somebody that you've never been, you're going to have to have beliefs that you have never, ever, ever deemed as truth in your life.

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So I told my son this morning, when it was hard. He said I can't. I said you better be careful the way you speak to yourself. So I asked him at breakfast. I said why saying it? Good, god Almighty, don't you ever just say something just to say it? Because here's the beauty of it or here's the reality of it. Language is what programs your mind. Language is what programs your mind. So you better be careful. You better be careful how you speak to yourself. I told him. I said you know good and well. We don't say can't in this house. Just because I haven't doesn't mean that I can't Say this to yourself. Just because I haven't doesn't mean I can't. No-transcript is the resilience that will be needed in order for you to do it. Y'all ain't trying to hear nothing I'm saying right now.

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So I'm trying to get in your skin and bones, into the spirit, to the core truth of you. The more that your frequency aligns with your desired reality, meaning your inner dialogue, your inner feeling, your inner energy, the more that this aligns with your desired reality, the less that you're going to need your desired reality. And the less that you need your desired reality, the less important it is. And the less important it is the smaller the gap, the smaller the distance, the smaller it is from you in that future version of you. And that is when that desired reality will need you.

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Good God, almighty, we always looking at life from the outside in. Why don't you look at it from the inside out? See, this is where we get up right here. This is where we get in trouble. Is we need the desired reality on the outside to give us this state on the inside? But if you look at the law of correspondence. Once I am it, now the reality says I need to be it. See, this is where we hustle backwards.

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You needed them to love you, but you needed you to love yourself and then they going to need to love you. Do you see how this works? If I respect me and I see me as me, I don't need you now to see me, but the paradox is that's when it's going to need you. So when you need you, when you are it, then it will need you, good God, almighty. So hear me when I say this you can't have what you need. You can't, but you can have anything that you don't need. I got to say this for the people in the back, because I don't think anybody right now is trying to hear anything that I'm saying. Right now, you cannot have what you need, but you can have anything that you don't need. You can have anything that you don't need. So I could go through this many a time. Look at your life. The moment that you stopped looking for them keys, that's when you found it. The moment that you stop grinding and you put them hands up, how they say in church, the church folks say I surrender. We put our hands up and the moment that I surrender, this is when it comes into your life. Say I surrender, we put our hands up and the moment that I surrender, this is when it comes into your life. True story.

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I was at a point in my career with the Globetrotters. I promised my wife we weren't going to have our second child. My son was already two. I was in my sixth year when he was born. I said I don't want to have a second child. I want to be present in my children's lives. I want my kids to know who I am.

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I didn't know what I wanted to do, and the reason why I didn't know what I wanted to do is because I didn't have a belief that I could do anything outside of playing basketball. This is for all my athletes out here. I don't know who's an athlete you listen to this. I don't know who's been doing something your whole life and now, all of a sudden, you got to make a pivot in. The world's been telling you that you can't do anything other other than what you've been doing, and I look back on it. You know why it took me so long.

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I played eight years. Seventh year was miserable. Eighth year was even worse. I didn't want to do it anymore, but I didn't have a belief. I didn't have a belief that supported I could do something more than what I had been doing. How many times do we do this? We wait for proof to have a belief. You don't have to have proof to have a belief. You ain't have to have proof to have a belief. You ain't got to have proof to have a belief. You can have a belief, and that's when you will have the proof.

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So I used to go to church every Sunday and they'd have an altar call. You go down to the altar. You could go down to the altar and pray or whatever. Hear me when I say this. For about four weeks straight, I would go down to that altar after my eighth year of season had just ended. I was still on team, though I had a little bit of break at home. I'd go down to that altar and I would cry, I would cry and I would cry and I would cry and I'd say, god, why? God, get me out of this. I don't know what I want to do, but I don't want to do this anymore. I want to. I beg. How many times we do this? You get down on your knees and you beg and you pray. God, please, god, please God.

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Looking at you saying, if you don't get the out of my face, life over here. Looking at you saying, if you don't get out of my face and stop asking me, stop begging me, stop praying to me. Why don't you start commanding? Why don't you start embodying? Why don't you start living? Why don't you start walking as if? Why don't you start acting like it and get your hard headed out of my face and stop asking me for everything all the time? Why don't you start walking around like you was already it? Huh, why don't you take some accountability for your life and get your nappy head up out of my face? I just imagine this is what the creator of everything is saying Get out of my face with all this. I gave you the ability, I gave you everything that was needed to create your life, and you over here, still asking for stuff like a damn victim. You over here, still walking around like you ain't got no command over your life. You over here, still walking around wishing and hoping that somebody's going to do something for you. Ain't nobody going to do nothing for you until you become the thing that you were looking for. So I didn't realize.

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Over those course of four weeks I was surrendered, I was surrendering and I got to a point, that four week, I said I don't care if I'm deaf, dumb and broke, I don't care what happens, I don't, I'm letting it go, I don't care if I got to figure it out. You tell me why. That was on Sunday. That was on Sunday. That was on Sunday when we fast forward to Wednesday. On Wednesday my wife took a pregnancy test. I don't know why she took a pregnancy test because I still wasn't done playing. I was still under contract. But we made a commitment and said we're not going to have our second child until that I am done playing. And up until that point I wasn't done. So I don't say I don't know what you're doing, taking a pregnancy test, we ain't taking no pregnancy test, we ain't having no kids. Because I told you I wasn't done. But see, here's the deal. You ready, you ready, you ready, you ready.

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I was still trying to play it safe. I was still trying to play it safe. I was still waiting for the physical reality. I was still waiting for the physical reality to show itself to give me permission to then have a second child. Life does not work that way. You was going to have to move into the energy first of your way of being. So. My wife was already the trendsetter. She was the pioneer, the trailblazer. She was the one carrying the baton, she was the one who was out in front and she's like I think I'm pregnant. It was like that scene off of Fantastic Mr Fox, when Mrs Fox looked at Mr Fox and said I'm pregnant and he said I got to change my ways now and he stopped robbing the chicken coop. That's a whole nother. You got to watch the movie great movie, but anyway, she took that pregnancy test and that thing was negative.

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On the next day, may 14, 2014, I got a call from my coach in HR. I said you're let go. Part of me felt sad, part of me felt fear, but I always felt relief. I can think back. I felt relief. You ever had that feeling when you was in a relationship. There was a dynamic that you didn't have the courage to get out of yourself because you had limiting beliefs that kept you from taking the next step.

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But then, for whatever happened, the universe kicked your butt out the house. It kicked you up out of that frequency and said I'm tired. I'm tired of you playing small with yourself. I'm tired of you living through limitations. I'm tired of you doing things and living by a story that somebody else had casted upon you. Get your butt off the couch and get out of this house right now. See, sometimes we got to get kicked out of the house. See, sometimes we got to get kicked out of the old frequency. You see how this works and life kicked me out.

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And now here I am. I'm unemployed, I don't have a job. I got no benefits, had a little money, little bit in savings, little bit in 401k, not enough that I'm going to be able to figure it out here in a year. But I had surrendered, I had let go. I had become the version of myself that said whatever it may be, it will be. And now I just opened up myself to what was possible.

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My wife came back on Friday and she took another pregnancy test. She said I'm pregnant. I'm pregnant, do you see? Do you see the series of events that had to happen? But what did it start with?

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It started with me first letting go. It started with me with first trusting that, whatever it was going to be, it was going to be. So I'm telling you right now, I'm telling you right now it was going to be, it was going to be. So I'm telling you right now, I'm telling you right now we're going to have to let go. We're going to have to let go. You're going to have to let go.

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The moment that you keep trying to Keep trying to what's the word? Ram and grind it. You ain't going to get it. You ain't going to have it. Because here's the biggest issue. You ready? Here's the biggest issue. Here's what we think, here's what we believe.

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You believe that your desired reality feels like it's going to do more for you than you could do for yourself. You feel like this desired reality is going to do more for you than you could do for yourself. But when you start to realize that you will do everything for yourself which will create your desired reality, now reality is going to be the one who bows to, he who knows themself, and this is what we call self-mastery. When I master myself that's why the Greeks used to say it all the time he who masters himself will become the master of all. Well, everything in your life was the all. The all is only matching whatever you have been doing and mastering in your own life. So reality is going to bow to you now. The reality is going to say finally, we've been needing her to be this version of her. We've been waiting, we've been waiting.

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So, before you sit here and say it's hard, before you sit here and say it's tough, before you sit here and say it's challenging, please know that that was just a belief that you had, and if I have a belief that's going in the negative, I also have the opportunity to create a belief in the positive. Do you see how this works? So, for everybody who has ears, for everybody who's listening, if you can hear me right now, please this is the paradox. When you desire nothing not that you don't seek things. When you desire nothing, though, meaning the desire is gone because I already have, remember you will only desire that which you don't have, and that which you don't have you will always need. But when my desire is gone, this physical world will seek to give you everything. This is how you do it.

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So here's what we got to do. We got to look at our desired reality. It's not important. You got to look at your desired reality as insignificant. You got to look at your desired reality as insignificant. You got to look at your desired reality as if it's nothing, it's no big deal. And if it is a big deal that's because there's a limiting belief.

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And the limiting belief says I needed that desired reality. I needed that situation on the outside. I needed that thing to make me blank. This was the thing that was going to make me feel blank. This was the thing that was going to give me permission to be blank. Whatever that blank is, whatever that blank is, that is your responsibility to create that frequency in your life. And now here's the beauty of it. Life's going to say it's about daggone time, that she is now walking in the energy, the frequency of being unlimited. It's about time. Now we can go ahead and give it. Now we can go ahead and match it.

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See, a lot of us and this was me for the longest I would write down everything. I would sit here and visualize. I would sit here. I was obsessed with it. You know what that does. You know what that does to the universe. You know what that does. God, the source creator, whatever you want to call it, you know what that does. It repulses it. It says. This is disgusting. I cannot believe this. I cannot believe this. Right now.

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Obsession is like stop obsessing over it. Stop living in a place of desperation. Whatever you desire, you're going to be desperate to have it. Whatever you desire, you're going to be desperate to have it. Whatever you desire, you're going to be desperate to have it. Stop walking through desperation, stop walking through desire. Be the thing that you desire. Go ahead and write this down. Write it down. Write it on your mirror. Do whatever you need to do. Get it tattooed on you. No, don't get it tattooed on you, because you're all going to say that I told you to do it. Don't do that. Whatever you desire, become it, become it. And how do we become it? Through our perception, through our belief, through our actions. It's really not rocket science. It's really quite simple. It's super simple. Not easy, but it's simple. Notice how I just said that it wasn't easy. That was just a belief. It's super easy. It's really easy. It really is.

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You've done things that were way harder, way harder, way more challenging, and that was proof that you could do this. So when you start to realize that life ain't nothing more than some total of your beliefs, all I got to do is make beliefs. That's in alignment with what I want to live Really quite simple. Oh yeah, I'm going to do it too. And then I got to be focused. That's just nothing more than the concentration of energy I have to be concentrating until I create this new belief. When I create this new belief, guess what? That will be what I project in my reality. When I project that into my reality, guess what? I will start to see it as proof. And when I see proof, all that does is reaffirm what I had already believed and perceived anyway. And then, when this starts going, it becomes autonomous. It becomes a thought loop, it becomes an autonomous cycle.

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And you've done this before. You've been doing this. You've been doing this. You've been doing this your whole life, both with negative, both with positive, probably mostly with negative. And when the positive happened, you didn't see how it was directly correlated to your way of being, because it's invincible. Your way of believing is a culmination of your beliefs, and your beliefs are invisible, but you won't see them until they show themselves in the physical world. That's why this self-work is so important. That's why I'm encouraging you to get yourself signed up in Unlimited. I am telling you what? Right now, I am going to show you how in Unlimited. And then, once you have the how, it ain't nothing to it but to do it. It ain't nothing to it but to do it. You can do anything as long as you know how. You know how. I learned how to cook when I learned how heat works on certain ingredients. I learned how heat works with dough. I learned how heat works with oil. I learned how heat works with certain meats. Once I learned how, it became simple. All I need is the recipe. I'm giving you the recipe. Get yourself signed up in Unlimited. It really isn't that complicated, and here's the beauty of it.

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What if you could develop a belief that says money comes to me effortlessly, opportunities flow to me, abundance is my divine nature? What if you created that belief? What if that was your core belief? Instead of I have to work really hard to make a good living, I need somebody to help me before I can get to where I want to go. What if these were your beliefs? What if your beliefs were not coming from a place of limitation, but they were now coming from unlimitedness?

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So I don't want to hear nothing about no limiting beliefs, no more. We're here to have unlimited beliefs. You hear what I'm saying. Go ahead and say it with me Unlimited beliefs, unlimited beliefs, beliefs that do not have limitation. I am here to create unlimited beliefs, all of us. This is why you're here. This is why you have a physical reality to see. If we could bring heaven to earth Meaning, could I bring this unseen frequency? Could I bring the spiritual plane, the mental plane? Could I bring that into physical reality? This is what Jesus is trying to tell you on earth, as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, meaning from a state of presence. This is the only way I was going to bring what nobody could see into my physical reality. So, in order to do this, I am just giving you a piece of advice. I'm going to tell you more how to do this in unlimited eight-week coaching program. Live with me. But I'm just telling you right now in order to do this, you're going to have to put them Kentucky Derby blinders on. You're going to have to go ahead and put those blinders on, because the whole world is going to show you on the outside where your limitations are.

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So now, when you look at John 14, 12, 14, and we start to look at, jesus was nothing more than the human spirit that was speaking in the form of this avatar. It was a metaphor. The Bible was a metaphor. You take it literally. You're going to be stuck in the form of this avatar. It was a metaphor. The Bible was a metaphor. You take it literally. You're going to be stuck in this three-dimensional reality. If you take it for what it was actually being written for, the esoteric, sacred version, the underlying meaning, so it would pertain to every individual, regardless if you were part of that belief system, believe it or not, your religion is a belief system. That's why there's so many different religions all around the world and, chances are, the religion that you have, the belief system that you have, was based on what somebody else had been telling you in this, the area that you lived in.

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When you start to look at John 14, 12, 14, and Jesus said very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these. You may ask me for anything in my name and I will do it. Good God, almighty, what if this was your spirit that was speaking, the infinite part of you, the part of you that was the divine, the part of you that had no limitations, the part of you that knew that anything was possible because it existed in a realm and a dimension where all things already existed and it was trying to bring it down into the physical. And it was saying to you, in this lower three-dimensional reality, I'm telling you, whatever limitation sorry whatever belief system you have, whatever beliefs you have, if you do these works, if you take these actions through this state of awareness, if you do it from this frequency, from the frequency of unlimitedness and I don't even know that that's a word, I may be making up words, but here we are If you do it from this state of consciousness, you will do things greater than what you have ever imagined. You will do things greater than what has ever been seen. And here's the beauty of it. You may ask it anything. Anything meaning there will be no limitations. You may ask anything and I will do it.

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I, the, I am the infinite, the immortal. This part of you will be what creates it. Why do you think it's always starting with an I, the, I am Intuition, infinite, immortal. We talking about the real part, the divine. This is what alignment was? Y'all ain't trying to hear nothing. I'm saying right now I'm in fact I'm about to shut this show down, I'm getting out of here. Y'all ain't trying to hear nothing. This is why you have these things that we call ideas. Ideas were coming from the infinite, that was immortal, that had no limitation. And it pops in and we have some ideas that never brought themselves into physical reality. You know why? Because you allowed the limiting beliefs of the old version of you that operated through this three-dimensional reality of logical, linear thinking to limit you.

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That was the only reason why I went to Alabama a couple years ago. I went to Alabama to study Martin Luther King Drove down there, drove eight hours, went down there, went to his church. I forgot what it was called. I can't remember. My mind ain't going right now. I'm channeling straight from source right now, so I can't even think of information. But I went down there and I got to see the slave trade where all that happened. I got to go to Martin Luther King's church and sit in there and I realized this man did all this work. He started this work at 25 years old. You know what I was trying to do when I was 25 years old. I know one thing I wasn't doing none of this and I sat here and studied it. I went to the civil rights museum. I was sitting there listening. I'm like man. This dude was ahead of his time. And what did he say? He said I have a dream. I have a dream. I have a dream.

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The dream was the seed of your beliefs. The dream was what preceded the belief. Do you see how this works? So you gonna have to dream. You have to dream outside of these limitations that have been cast upon you by your parents, by society, by your race, by your culture, by your religion, by your spouse, by your exes, by your enemies. All of them had their own beliefs, all of them. All of them had their own beliefs. All of them, they all had their own beliefs, all of them.

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And chances are, those beliefs were not in alignment with what you thought was possible or what you wanted to create in your desired reality. And that's why it doesn't feel good, because each soul came with its own purpose. Each soul came with its own passion. Each soul came with its own passion. Each soul came with its own infinite capabilities. And the question was how much of this world are you going to allow to get in the way. So you get the gist of what I'm saying. If you desire something, that means you ain't it, you don't have it, and that's okay. But now use life for what it's intended for. Every time something comes up, allow it to show you where and why you do not have a belief that supports the desired reality.

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So I spend my energy, I spend my time making sure that I tune out the outside noise. I tune out the things that do not align with the desired reality, because I'm in a fragile state right now. I'm in a fragile state. This is why children are so fragile. You better be careful how you speak to kids. You better be careful what you tell them.

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I've been telling my kids since they were little they were going to do big things. I've been telling them since they were little why? Because I knew at that point their subconscious was so impressionable and it still is. I make sure I speak life into them. I make sure I give them beliefs. Their belief system is so. Their belief bubble is so big. Ain't nothing impossible to them, nothing, nothing. Because I know at some point the world's going to get a hold of them and the world's going to tell them to be realistic. The world's going to start using these things that we call statistics. The world's going to look at them in their skin color and say you do realize that? Blank, blank, blank, blank, blank. You know? I look at my life and my physical reality. They say that one in every three black men will be in jail. I said that's a mother lie, that's a damn lie. That's based off of past events. Statistics ain't nothing but based off of past events.

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So before you start to develop a belief system around what science has said, before you start to develop a belief system around what society says, before you start to develop a belief system of what the statistics may say, you better make sure that your belief system is in alignment with what you want to experience. I don't want to go to jail, I don't want to go to prison. So you know what? I'm not going to subscribe to that belief. I look at my household I grew up in. I have me, my father and my brother and nay, and one of us touch prison. Nay and one of us have gone to jail. Now is life over with? No, but I'm telling you one thing I didn't even entertain that belief. That belief was not something that was going to get down with. Dg. Never was, never will, it won't Do you see how this works? So now, because I don't believe that it can't fit within my reality Y'all ain't trying to hear nothing. I'm saying I got to get off this thing. I'm getting off right now.

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So just ask yourself, ask yourself this Are my beliefs really my beliefs? Are they? Do they fit the desired reality that I'm looking to experience? Have I given myself already the energy, the frequency of the desired reality? Am I being that right now? Am I walking in the frequency of who it is that I want to be?

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See, ain't nothing. The world can't give it to you. The world can't give it to you. The world can't give it to you. It can't. That's what I'm trying to tell you. The world can't give you the frequency. The world cannot give you the frequency. Didn't Jesus tell you this? That which is given to you cannot be taken from you, from the world. That which is given to you, meaning you was born with the default program of being unlimited, you already had it inside you. The world can't give you that. You adopted it. The world sold it to you and you bought it, but you can't, you cannot, cannot expect the world to give you the frequency that you were looking to experience, and there's our reality. You had to become it.

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So I encourage you, get yourself signed up for Unlimited. You can go to dgmindsetcom I can make more than enough ways. You can join the DG Mindset community, get your discount. Early Bird Special is going around right now. You better hurry up and get yourself signed up because I'm telling you we go on hand. We got thousands of people who sign up for these programs changing all around the world.

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Why? I developed a belief system a while ago that I was going to help the world, but I realized that the world was just the outside. I had to first help the man on the inside Michael Jackson said it best the man in the mirror. I was going to have to work on me on the inside and that's really all I'm doing. I'm sharing a program to become unlimited, because I'm walking through the phase of becoming just a little bit more limited.

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So I look forward to seeing you in unlimited and if it does not change your life, you tell me, you let me know. You come straight to the horse's mouth and I'll do what I need to do to make sure that I give you what you need. So it will change the trajectory of your life. But if you do everything that you're supposed to, you're going to see life change and it's going to be so subtle and all of a sudden you're going to be like dang, I didn't even realize I'm not stressed out about money, dang, I didn't even realize somebody just deposited 10,000 in my account for something, something. Dang, I didn't. Yeah, it's because you changed, but it wasn't no big deal and you didn't see it because you were already it.

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This is why I'm trying to tell you your beliefs. Your beliefs are invisible. You don't see when you became it. You only see when you're not it, and that's the universe's way of ensuring that it's on your side, to make sure that you get rid of the limiting beliefs that do not serve everything that you are capable of. So you keep going, you keep going, you keep diving into you. This is why I wrote the Seven Laws of Healing the Inner Child. Go buy the book off Amazon. Seven Laws of Healing the Inner Child. This is the framework of how to rewrite the beliefs of the old. Those are the only limitations that are stopping you, and I'm going to see you in Unlimited. I will see you there, so we can take this trek up to the top of the mountain and, as always, I wish you nothing but the best on the pathway to your results. You.