The Pathway To Your Results
Hosted by Derick “DG” Grant, this weekly show guides you through the powerful intersection of mindset, spirituality, and performance. DG unpacks how to break free from limiting beliefs, heal your inner child, and align energetically with your greatest vision. Through personal stories, practical exercises, and metaphysical insights, each episode offers you a clear path to unlocking your potential and living a life of true freedom, joy, and abundance.
The Pathway To Your Results
The Heart says NO, The Head says Yes
The episode unfolds with an intimate look into the courage required to heed our heart's call over the drumbeat of logic. As I recount pivotal moments where my heart overruled my head, we'll discuss how intuition often holds the keys to our fulfillment. We'll embark on an emotional expedition, promising a six-month journey of self-discovery that beckons you to release fears and anxieties and embrace the profound peace that comes with living in alignment with your heart's rhythm. Together, let's navigate the rich landscapes of inner truth and trust in the unknown, as we support each other in embracing the heart's wisdom and the joy it brings to our lives.
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Once you see what you actually are, that you're an infinite, limitless being, you'll see that nothing exists outside of you. I'm your host, derek Grant, and this is the Pathway to your Results Podcast. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the Pathway to your Results Podcast. It is your Mickey Freaky Boy DG. We are here live and in effect. Look, this episode is for you, and sometimes we just need permission from others to give ourselves permission.
Speaker 1:You gotta be able to say no, you gotta be able to say no, and here's what the no is. The no is actually the yes of the heart. Good God, almighty, we getting started already. Every time that you say no to something that you know doesn't work, you're actually saying yes to the universe. You see how this works. I say no because it's not an alignment. It doesn't feel good, it doesn't feel right. If I can have the courage to say no energetically to the universe, I'm actually saying yes. I am worth this. I am worthy. I have to say this because I deal with a lot of business dealings and sometimes business, the 3D mind and you bring money in it. It can bring out the egoic shadow, the wounded parts of us that think that this deal or this money is gonna make me enough, and people start doing things unconsciously and I just kept seeing this reoccurring pattern in my life of like dang, it's so hard, I gotta keep saying no, I gotta keep saying no, I gotta keep saying no Things that I had said yes to, and then it doesn't resonate anymore and I gotta say no. How many times has that ever happened to you in your life? Were you like you say yes at one point and then you change? You said yes as a caterpillar, but now you're a butterfly and things are different. And now you have to go back on your quote, unquote word. It's not that you're going back on your word, you've evolved. You're not the same being. You may look the same, but energetically you're in a completely different timeline. So the reason why I'm saying this is because a lot of times I had a mentor tell me one time and it stick with me forever. I never forget when he told me this he goes. A lot of times in life you will be more defined by no than you will. By saying yes, meaning every time that you say no, you're actually in alignment, you're actually in harmony with the heart, because the heart tells you yes by saying no. Good God, almighty. It just came to me a real time. If you think about it like, addition is subtraction, every time we say yes, we have addition. Every time we say no, we have subtraction.
Speaker 1:Think about it yes is of the mind, no is of the heart. The heart is the feminine, the mind is sign, the subtraction. The mind is the positive Adam Addition. Do you see? Do we have to listen to know what our heart sounds like? But our heart speaks in terms of no's. The mind speaks in terms of yes's.
Speaker 1:This is why we get confused, because the heart saying no, and the heart ain't going to shout and yell. The heart won't do that. The heart will say no, this does not feel right. But then the head tries to figure out how to make it say yes. We got to turn this into a yes, I know I shouldn't do this. This doesn't feel right. Well, how do you know? I don't know, I just do. You see. And now we won't do what our heart's telling us to do, because our head's trying to figure out a way, rationalizing, using logic, using intellect, thinking about past experiences. It wants to know where, it wants to know how, it wants to know how to win. It's trying to build the whole, the new house with the old bricks, but the heart didn't need any bricks, it already knew. So this is what I'm learning in my life from business dealings, contractual obligations and relationships you gotta be able to say no. Because every time this you say no, you're putting up a boundary. And when you put up a boundary, you're protecting the safe space of the heart. You're protecting the sacredness of the heart, and I mean sacred in the sense that it's timeless, it knows already everything. But I gotta put up a boundary. And here's when you know you're in alignment with the heart, because it usually doesn't make sense in the world. We're living in a super three-dimensional world. We're moving into the heart space more, but a lot of people move out of their head space instead of their heart space.
Speaker 1:And when I move out of my heart space I look weird. I look like I'm different, I look like an outcast, I look like an outlier, I look like the black swan, I look like the dying swan, they look like the dying swan and I look like the man standing outside my house as всё sees me. And than I go, keep on telling my heart the truth so I don't have to. And finally the south. And if you go, you go on or cross country looking out at 80. And let's hold up till I tell you the truth about being a great person Friday night, be a good celebrity or get greetings. I'm gonna leave you with a little glory, day after day, day after day, for the family. You know, just like aasta, day after day, day after day.
Speaker 1:Now, who owns the heart? I don't know, I mean, I'm not G-d, but it's pretty family draft for eight weeks. I'll go ahead and sign up for an eight week NBA pre-draft to help these guys get ready for the league. That's what the head's saying yeah, let's do it. Yeah, this would be good. But the heart's saying, no, that life is over, that's not who we are anymore. But the head's like, yeah, but no, this is, this is we man, we hoopers. And now here, I know it Before I know it, two, three weeks in, I'm miserable. I'm miserable. I'm like why did I do this? Why? Why, because you didn't listen to your heart.
Speaker 1:So it's not about listening to our hearts, because we all know what our heart sounds like. It's about trusting thy heart. This is the greatest thing that you could ever do to yourself was to know what your heart sounded like and then to trust your heart. So how do we trust our heart? D, that's cool. Yeah, yeah, yeah, no, we get it. Yeah, that's that's awesome. How do I trust my heart? You trust your heart by first not trusting it.
Speaker 1:Remember, I told you that I had operated in the law of opposites. You learn what your heart sounds like by you not listening to it and then getting burned, reflecting and saying, dang, I knew I shouldn't have, I knew this wasn't a good idea. I'm going through it right now, literally a situation that happened five years ago. It's representing itself in a similar fashion and all it is. And all it is is to see if I've learned from listening to my heart. And this time I know and here's what I did. I knew what the know was a year and a half ago.
Speaker 1:I knew I needed to say no, but I kept putting it off and kept putting it off and kept putting it off, waiting for someone else to say no for me. Good God, almighty, how many times we do that. You know you need to say no, but you're waiting for somebody else to say no. You know you don't need to be in that relationship. You know you don't need to be in that marriage. You know you need to quit that job and go after your passion. You know that. You know deep down inside.
Speaker 1:But guess what? You waiting for somebody else to say I don't want to be with you anymore. You waiting for them to cheat on you. You, over here, you upset that they cheated, but you actually happy because now you don't have to be in this relationship. You waiting for your boss to get angry at you so you can cuss him out. Why? So now you can fire me and I can go ahead and quit, because I wouldn't listen to my heart, even though it was telling me.
Speaker 1:So. By you saying no and listening to it and then trusting it vibrationally, you move into alignment with it. And here's the beauty of the heart because the heart already knows, because the heart already has everything, because the heart's only present. You will start to see. Life will correspond to what the heart was saying in a way that you never could have imagined. Here's the beauty of the heart, because it's how we feel. When we follow how we feel, we won't worry about how it looks anymore, so you won't worry about what people think about you and say wait, so you're gonna get out of this relationship. What you gonna leave your job to go do what? What you gonna do, you won't care anymore, because you have fulfilled the thing that only mattered in life. It did not matter how something looked. That was what the head was worried about. That was what the ego worried about. What mattered was how life felt. That was the heart.
Speaker 1:So now, when I move into vibrational alignment with the heart, I will have found everything that I was looking for. I will have found the peace. I will have found the joy, because it can only reside in the heart space. Do you see now why courage was so needed and why I speak on this so much, why you had to have courage? You had to tell yourself I'm gonna figure out a way. I don't care, yeah, but what if I follow my heart and it doesn't work? I don't care, I'm gonna figure out a way to make it work and I'm just gonna keep following my heart.
Speaker 1:I'm sitting on this podcast right now with you because I followed my heart. The universe forced me to. It put me in a situation that created such an energetic imbalance. I couldn't say no, sorry. I couldn't say yes. I had to say no to things. I had to because it just didn't feel right. So you're at that job.
Speaker 1:If you're afraid to start that new thing, if you're in a relationship and your heart's saying no, this is not for us anymore, if you don't say no and take action and move towards what your heart's saying, here's what's gonna end up happening. The universe is going to force you to, it's gonna force you to, and sometimes it doesn't feel good. Sometimes it doesn't feel good I'm not saying something catastrophic as a death or a car accident, but it could be. So I've just realized in my own life and that's all this podcast is is me sharing my journey with you, to help you along your journey. Good, and it's gracious how important it is to just be in alignment with the heart. Trust the heart. I gotta say no.
Speaker 1:I know material world it looks like this is a great opportunity, but you know what? In my heart space it's saying no and for some reason, the heart knew. It knew already we could get to the genetics of it. We could get to the biology of it. Your heart was the first organ that was developed inside of your mom's embryo Sorry, your mom's womb. When you were an embryo, your heart was comprised of 40,000 neurons that could think, learn and feel independently of the brain, and on average, it was milliseconds before being able to process information, before the head was. So your heart knew before your head did. The heart knew it was the knower. This was the gateway, the seat of intuition. Intuition is your inner teacher. But because we're so caught up in the head, the head is louder. We never learn how the heart sounds. So I didn't want to make this long. I just wanted you to give yourself permission to start listening and following your heart here in 2024.
Speaker 1:Truly, you'll know when you're doing it, because it won't look like it makes sense in the world. And the reason why it doesn't make sense is because the mind is what this world is. The head is what the world is comprised of. That's the matrix. It has to make sense. We have to know how it's going to be. We have to know when it's going to happen, but that's why it doesn't make sense. How is this going to work? I don't know. I'll tell you after I do it. Yeah, but what if it doesn't work? Yeah, but what if it does? But what if people think I'm crazy? Well, what if people think you're the best thing since sliced bread, you see. So this is what it. This is what it was about I'm learning.
Speaker 1:Now, if we get to the metaphysics of it, your heart is nothing more than a vibrational particle that's going to be a particle. The vibrational particle accelerator is the thing that's collapsing, this wave of pure potentiality that everything is. Everything is just light waves, and when the observer gave attention to something, it collapsed into a particle, and then that particle froze and materialized itself into matter. E equals mc squared. Energy and matter are the same thing times, the constant, which is the speed of light. The speed of light was your thoughts, your thoughts coupled with your heart. The particle accelerator, the thing that collapsed space and time, the thing that was a black hole in this three-dimensional reality that forced everything to flow towards it. When you did that, you would start to see that time and space would collapse towards it. So I could think of what I want with space. And then time was how long it took the manifestation, the physical manifestation of what it was. I Could do this through the heart space.
Speaker 1:So this is why, when you start to see and you understand the power of your heart, why, when you're feeling good and time is flowing and everything feels good. Why time flies by? It's because your heart is just heavier, has more of an energetic imprint. It's collapsing the wave into a particles, accelerating this particle even more. Really, it's like a black hole. It's like a bowling ball in a blanket. Everything's just flowing towards it.
Speaker 1:But you first had to know what your heart sounds like. More apart, importantly, what it felt like. So take time to learn thy heart, to learn what it sounds like. What does it feel like? Pay attention how you feel. Don't act on how you feel. You first have to reflect. Is this a feeling based off of a subconscious wound, or is this? No, this is my intuition, and that's where only time quote-unquote time is going to help you.
Speaker 1:You're gonna learn over time like okay, I know what this sounds like, I know when it feels good, I know what it feels wrong, I know, and then start to trust it. As With anything, in order for something to work, to have this thing that we call trust, we have to have a relationship with it. So the more you have a relationship with your heart, the more you start listening to those knows, the more you can start to trust it. So, as always, I wish you nothing but the best. I wish you Nothing but heart led Endevors on this journey.
Speaker 1:Here in a couple weeks, we're going to Take a six-month journey where I'm gonna help people release Parts of themselves that we're keeping them from listening to their heart. We're gonna get rid of the parts of us that were created out of fear, the parts of us that were created out of anxiety, the parts of us that were created out of survival. Once we get rid of those, it'd be so much easier to hear our heart, because those parts of us were actually developed in the head and they got pushed down to the heart. So we're gonna release. Get yourself signed up right now. It's a six-month journey.
Speaker 1:I can guarantee you this. If you sign yourself up right now, I don't care what you're dealing with by the end of these six months, you will be a completely different person and you will have an inner peace, like my mama used to say, a peace beyond understanding. I'm looking forward to taking you on this journey. I Will be right there with you, I will coach you through it all and we'll do this together. I Want you to go DG mindset calm, find out information, see if it resonates with you Listen to your heart. Until next time, I wish you nothing but the best to your results.